If you are displeased with something or someone, your dismay has nothing to do with that particular person or thing.
You have two options : either project the blame and find motivation for your being unhappy, or realize that there is no blame, neither in yourself nor in the other, and find motivation to be happy
All our sense of so-called inner security is built on illusion and lie. That´s why we are so scared of real communication,
as we fear that the other person will see how easily demolished is our false existential ground.
It is so crazy – the most important things are not discussed and almost nobody pays attention to this : we are afraid of Living and afraid of Feeling.
Of course no one would admit it, because this is a too big an issue.
Time is illusion…
In order for the mind to exist it needs time and space…You have all the time you need when you LIVE whatever is your purpose, when you express your innermost meaning. But you are short of time when you do “wrong” things in life – those things that have nothing to do WITH WHO YOU REALLY ARE.
Your soul is in a state of riot, and so time will never suffice for being angry
We give away our valuable time to fear, and other people get rich on our weakness, loneliness and lacking courage to live.
The founder of Facebook makes billions on our vanity, narcissism, and frustration. We have become so irrevocably crazy and neurotic, so afraid of confronting life spontaneously, so we let our lives be confiscated by whatever illusion of togetherness.
So it is self – evident :
Instead of trusting and inspiring each other, we fight and flee one another. And we become more and more poor, more lonely, more boring, more predictable…If the next person is no longer your mirror, there are no stories to tell.
Money cannot buy stories and unfortunately, there are hardly any stories worth telling nowadays.
You give up what you think you need, and GIVE ME what I know I need – this is generally the idea of this terrible nuisance which is called competition. It is quite obvious : a competing person sees nothing but enemies – whatever does not correspond my preconceived ideas and interests, is to be ignored, has no value – or, if it has a value it´s a threat and I have to fight it. In this hostile climate how can we speak of peace?