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Whatever happens, or doesn´t happen in your personal life-story is the outcome
of your inner story.
All events, all dramas, people you encounter, all relations, or absence of
meaningful relations, mirror perfectly your inner state – your conditioning.
This inner conditioning of yours decide everything in the course of what you call
“personal experience”. Indeed, your inner conditioning equates your destiny!
With other words, this conglomerate of emotions, memories, traumas,
unfulfilled wishes, unresolved conflicts and expectations from your childhood
become THE ENTITY WHICH GOVERNS YOUR LIFE, WHO CALLS ITSELF “I”.
In most cases, your real I-ness has no chance against this powerful inertial dissonance. This vibrational disharmony is usually very powerful, it continues to perpetuate itself, yes, it lives “your” life, without you having a chance to assert yourself “against” it – as your real individuality is not sufficiently constellated.
If you were abused and maltreated in your childhood, if your father or mother were emotionally frustrated, if you were demeaned and scorned, the sum of these experiences will attract encounters with people with the same predicament.
If you are reasonably awake, you will admit that all your friends and acquaintances
although being individuals with different backgrounds, secretly share a kind of similar destiny with yours.
I repeat: your early life-experience determines the course of your life!
Tell me honestly, how many times you haven´t worked hard to achieve something desirable, and what you got was nothing but a reiteration of your well-known
life-drama…You wanted a better partner, a more understanding friend, a better position, but eventually you “manifested” the same abusive wife or husband, narcissistic friend or boss, being hopelessly relegated to your role as a victim of
your own destiny…
Seemingly, your vulnerable and loose I-ness has no chance “to beat up” these
mighty destructive forces.
It is for sure an impossible combat to try fighting against this timeless
individual and collective adverse heredity.
Sadly enough, very few will know the liberation from this reckless fate,
and it is understandable why – it is an impossible undertaking to outwit an
immemorial conditioning which is the very foundation of this “civilization”.
If you feel that you are among “those few”, – and you might be, since you read these
lines now – know that IT IS POSSIBLE TO PUT BEHIND THIS AGELESS DRAMA.
What is required is your readiness and lucidity to see things as they truly are.
Against all odds, what you have to do is acknowledging the drama but stop
fighting against it.
Understand that whatever you try to conceive being caught in the grip
of conditioning, will inevitably fail.
IF YOU WANT TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE-STORY, YOU NECESSARILY
NEED TO LET GO OF IT, TELLING YOURSELF A NEW STORY.
Watch out to not repeat the old story in a new version, which easily happens
when people and political systems claim to change.
Just stop aspiring! Take a break from it all for a while!
STOP TRYING TO BUILD ON A FALSE GROUND!
Put an end to this wicked carousel by just observing it impartially.
RETRIEVE YOUR INNOCENCE. Give yourself a new space! Your sense of real
I-ness may be presently weak and vulnerable, but through becoming a
child again, you can discover its incredible strength.
Observe your sorrow, don´t try to heal it through relations or through actions, cause you end up where you started. Just observe it, express it!
CRY IT if it feels like that!…It is no shame to express your pain!
Start to play again! Play and play even if it hurts! Improvise and play!
Put everything upside down! See Life, as an expression of Joy instead of Must.
Choose to see everything through the mirror of your new discovered joy! This joy
is the sister of your sorrow.
The more veritable joy and true feeling, the more you grow.
And in due time, out of this joy – which is your true I-ness -, you will see that change swiftly happens around you. New people, new opportunities, new chances to grow!…
YOU CHANGE YOUR DESTINY WHEN YOU CHANGE YOUR INNER STORY!
2012/11/01 3 Comments
I just bumped into this worth-considering quote:
“The purpose of a storyteller is not to tell you how to think, but to give you questions to think upon”, says Brandon Sanderson.
I am never raising or posing questions for the sake of idly playing with ideas.
Every moment and word is too precious.
Who needs futile ruminating…?
Questions are indeed vital. They are real insofar as they create a powerful impact, a tool to create a wider and different perspective. Raising the right questions is a challenge to change and grow. An invitation to look at things differently, with a more inquisitive and attentive frame of mind.
So here are some worth-asking questions:
Is there such thing as Fate? If there is, can we “outwit” it?
Are we the victims or the creators of our Destiny?
Who are you really?…WHO ARE YOU?
Are you your own, or other people´s dream? Do you still find it comfortable to go on committing to
other people´s plans for you just because you are afraid of yours…? Are you just a random “someone”
in some “important” people´s agenda? Why have you given up so easily on your dreams?
What´s this perfidious gain to demean yourself? What´s in it for you really…?
So what works and what doesn´t? Do you want things to work? Are you disposed to find out or you
still hold the false belief that things are going to be better some time in the future…?
Why certain things bring benefit and other don´t?
Why are you lethargic and tired most of the times…? Are you prepared to look into that and find out
What gives you real energy?
What are you prepared to give in order to get what you want…?
WHY ARE YOU AFRAID?…Who do you fear really…?
Are you prepared to be the master of your Life…?
Do you want to be happy or are you afraid of Happiness and real Success…?
Do these questions feel relevant? If yes, let´s discuss them.
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