“What are you now Julien”, asked me Bex.
A good question. In the moment I answered her I was Julien-Bex, that is, a kind of entity between me and her.
Now I am in silence writing this. It means that my name for this moment is JULIEN SILENCE.
God knows what my name is going to be in 2 minutes.
Whenever I meet another person I let myself BE that specific contact. If I really allow to be open, and the other does the same, the energy of that contact is reciprocal gain. I am not interested to impose, to be right, to impress, to show off…oh no, how boring that would be…totally uninteresting and irrelevant.
So know that whenever you meet someone, you have a chance to grow…if you both understand that
“the other” in a curious way is “superior” to you, and you to him.
No one knows what the other knows, that´s for sure.
Usually we are lonely, as we do nothing but manipulating, hiding from each other, fearing the other.
That is fear, of Self, of yourself and of the other.
You are the other, so there is nothing to be afraid of really…
http://julienmatei.com/2012/11/13/stop-trying-to-be-someone-just-be-yourself-for-a-change/