If you are displeased with something or someone, your dismay has nothing to do with that particular person or thing.
You have two options: either project the blame and find motivation for your being unhappy, or realize that there is no blame, neither in yourself nor in the other, and find motivation to be happy 🙂
All our sense of so-called inner security is built on illusion and lie. That´s why we are so scared of real communication, as we fear that the other person will see how easily demolished is our false existential ground.
It is so crazy – the most important things are not discussed and almost nobody pays attention to this: we are afraid of Living and afraid of Feeling. Of course no one would admit it, because this is a too big an issue.
Time is illusion…
In order for the mind to exist it needs time and space…You have all the time you need when you LIVE whatever is your purpose, when you express your innermost meaning. But you are short of time when you do “wrong” things in life – those things which have nothing to do WITH WHO YOU REALLY ARE.
Your soul is in a state of riot, and so time will never suffice for being angry 🙂