Why people don´t socialize

More often than not, you realize that there is no more genuine contact between people. And alas, civilization is supposed to mean exactly what we don´t have anymore : good, fruitful relation and communion with each other.

This is due to the fact that  we feel something is intrinsically wrong with us, namely we are aware we have become incredibly poor inside and – at the same time – self-sufficient and isolated. Deep down we are secretly ashamed of ourselves, because we know that we can fool others, but never Life. Consequently we have a ( motivated or not ) very low self-esteem – that is why we hide and don´t socialize. We are afraid the other will see through our emptiness and unworthiness.

About julienmatei
I feel an inner urge to express what I see, to communicate and share with others all these impressions. Often the things I see are there, not yet manifest, but waiting... to be observed, talked about, and embraced. These new insights need another approach, a more vivid curiosity... Due to fear and prejudice we prefer to see only "the official" truth - but THE OFFICIAL TRUTH IS DEAD - being dead, it has nothing to give... We can continue pretending Death is fascinating or... we can take the trouble to LIVE... THE NEW has no definition yet... Again, IT requires another "perception", the courage to apprehend everything differently, from a totally new angle, with new confidence and inquisitive touch. This blog is not about interesting concepts, it is about participation... finding new solutions, inspiration, togetherness.

3 Responses to Why people don´t socialize

  1. Marie L says:

    Ja, förstår din ståndpunkt Julien…

    Om alla känner så som du säger så kan vi väl alla träffas och skämmas ihop då, varför gömma oss och skämmas på kammaren… 😉

    /Marie 🙂

    • julienmatei says:

      🙂 När man tillsammans med andra , vågar berätta om sin inre nöd , ja, skam bl.a , när man vågar visa sig som man är , utan mask, först då kan något hända.
      Att våga visa sårbarhet , medmänsklighet , otillräcklighet , men också sina gåvor , att sluta avvisa sig själv och andra…

      Vågar vi?

  2. Marie L says:

    Yes, we do! 😀

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