Let us be imperfect

Everyone is trying so hard to be special. To be perfect. To be flawless…

And because of that, many end up being so boring, so sufficient and predictable, hardly defending  their petty egos, so you often have the feeling of horrible superfluousness by being yourself.

“I am special”, they think, “therefore I cannot indulge in a dialogue with you, because if I do that, there is a risk  I realize you are also on the same planet, and then my feeling of being special is reduced.”

“You are supposed to admire me and give ME your full attention, but don´t count on me giving something back, – because I am terribly afraid to make any mistake, as I am struggling like hell to entertain this hardly acquired false image, and you might realize that behind this image I am hollow and a failure.”

To be perfect, means to be afraid of making mistakes, due to obsessively protecting your secret feeling of worthlessness.

It is absolutely crazy and absurd to see all these well-fed, well-dressed, well to do people, who behind this crazy cosmopolitan facade are incredibly lonely, astray, but playing this cheap theater, giving their precious life to this masquerade.

In this climate, you often have the feeling that the world has become depopulated. Nobody is there.

IT IS BORING LIKE HELL, it’s a terrible nuisance to live among Mannequins !

We live in a non sense world. Despite the multitude of events, nothing really happens.

The human factor makes life worthwhile, genuine relations make things happen, but as long as we “play perfect” and entertain these hollow attitude of rising above anyone else, nothing real can take place.

Communication presupposes openness, honesty, the courage to be yourself, a sense of solidarity and love, trust, and above all, a genuine interest for the other…That´s the beginning of a real life…That´s what we all need…

Only Death is perfect and to try to be perfect, means to give your life to death.

Life, on the other hand, is, and will always be imperfect, frail and unpredictable,


About julienmatei
I feel an inner urge to express what I see, to communicate and share with others all these impressions. Often the things I see are there, not yet manifest, but waiting... to be observed, talked about, and embraced. These new insights need another approach, a more vivid curiosity... Due to fear and prejudice we prefer to see only "the official" truth - but THE OFFICIAL TRUTH IS DEAD - being dead, it has nothing to give... We can continue pretending Death is fascinating or... we can take the trouble to LIVE... THE NEW has no definition yet... Again, IT requires another "perception", the courage to apprehend everything differently, from a totally new angle, with new confidence and inquisitive touch. This blog is not about interesting concepts, it is about participation... finding new solutions, inspiration, togetherness.

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