Masters of dissimulation

It happens sometimes that you come across someone friendly who shares your interest to grow, to build a meaningful contact, maybe a friendship.

This person may show intelligence, even talent, he can have valuable insights. He can write, he can listen. He seems interested to investigate in that particular field, he can even come up with relevant feed back, to cut it short, you seem to have reached a consensus, when bum!… – out of the blue you understand that the words of this person meant absolutely nothing. That the whole discussion was phony, that you have given precious time to an unsound and reckless sham who has misused your time and your trust, and there you are again…left alone, suspended in disappointment, in the hollowness of his mendacity.

These impostors are more dangerous than any con-man:

They are shrewd and can flawlessly display a wide range of great qualities: talent, deep emotion, subtlety, empathy, yes, even love…Even for the experienced eye, it can all seem true and real…indeed, their ability to deceive and fool anyone is mind-boggling…

Pray to the Universe that you don´t bump into such frauds. Or if you do, to learn to outwit them – which almost requires otherworldly acuity.

About julienmatei
I feel an inner urge to express what I see, to communicate and share with others all these impressions. Often the things I see are there, not yet manifest, but waiting... to be observed, talked about, and embraced. These new insights need another approach, a more vivid curiosity... Due to fear and prejudice we prefer to see only "the official" truth - but THE OFFICIAL TRUTH IS DEAD - being dead, it has nothing to give... We can continue pretending Death is fascinating or... we can take the trouble to LIVE... THE NEW has no definition yet... Again, IT requires another "perception", the courage to apprehend everything differently, from a totally new angle, with new confidence and inquisitive touch. This blog is not about interesting concepts, it is about participation... finding new solutions, inspiration, togetherness.

3 Responses to Masters of dissimulation

  1. livvy1234 says:

    Oh yes! You hit the hammer right on the nail. Shrewd imposters sucking the life out of you because of their need to know, gossip, or have power over you. The world is full of shrewd imposters.

  2. I am sorry if I have disappointed you. But I was alway honest with you to the best of my knowledge. We just hade one disagreement. Maybe you were right, maybe I also was in som Wayne. Or maybe I was just wrong. Or maybe there is no judge of that, Except for the judgement one have the right to do If It feels called upon Or nessesary. I give you right in one thing without second thought: that it is strange times when people no longer believe their own eyes. Our reaction to what we see is our own responsibility and can differ thought.
    And through that we can learn something abort our self. Right or wrong.

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