Only when iIlusion is demystified, LOVE can arise.

Julien, I like the What of your posts, this is why I follow your blog. But the How often awakes my negative emotions and stops me from “liking”. For me Love means understanding without judging. I believe the only “no” that works is a firm “no” said from Love, from caring, from feeling equal with others. I don’t feel understanding reading your posts, I feel fighting and proving, I feel fear of ego that tries to keep you higher than others. This is not meant as announcing an objective truth, there are my feelings I am sharing of faith that we are supposed to be mirrors for each other. What you are going to do with it is up to you.

You see, I can not be held liable over other people´s negative emotions. Negative emotions are each and everyone´s personal responsiblity.
If something triggers negative emotion – in this particular case, my posts – it doesn´t imply that the post as such is “negative” or “positive”. Evidently, it has more to do with
the other´s,- indeed, with your way of understanding and perception of it.

It is obvious, certain of my posts are not ingratiating ego lullabies, there are many others who successfully indulge in that kind of futile pursuit. It is not my intent either to be liked or disliked, but to create a real impact, in order to back those ones who want to break free from illusion. In my own experience,
people I didn´t “like” at first sight have opened my eyes more than the ones I “liked”.
TRUTH is hard to convey, and even harder to accept. Truth hurts… – the ego being the first to repudiate Truth, taking it as menace.

Habitually, we are so inveterately caught in delusion and hypocrisy so what many times is taken for “love”, is just Egomania. Languorous rubbish. Soap opera. This soap opera, which is our age, this horrible Wasteland has almost eliminated true Worth, Soul and Spirit, turning Love and great human endeavour into some kind of foolish nonsense. The same goes for Truth. Truth for many is something similar with a dinosaur. They know it existed, but never saw it.

Please, get me straight: I do not compare myself with anyone. If I don´t compare myself, how then could I be “worse” or “better” than anyone?…Higher or lower, better or worse, are the outcome of our finite mind, meaning that there is no other person to be better or worse than me either.

Thus, I FEEL EQUAL WITH NOBODY! I feel equal with myself only, I only fraternize with other
people´s naked truth, which in turn, is my truth!!

We are mirrors of each other´s True Image not of each other´s reciprocal falseness.
Mirrors of Encounters is a place for true encounter, self-critical examination, honesty and readiness to question, not a place for convenient falsehood and comfortable idleness.

I am not here to flirt with bad taste, pretense, fraud and imposture. Truth is not self-infatuation. Truth demystifies illusion.

And only when Illusion is demystified and seen as illusion, then and only then, LOVE can arise.

About julienmatei
I feel an inner urge to express what I see, to communicate and share with others all these impressions. Often the things I see are there, not yet manifest, but waiting... to be observed, talked about, and embraced. These new insights need another approach, a more vivid curiosity... Due to fear and prejudice we prefer to see only "the official" truth - but THE OFFICIAL TRUTH IS DEAD - being dead, it has nothing to give... We can continue pretending Death is fascinating or... we can take the trouble to LIVE... THE NEW has no definition yet... Again, IT requires another "perception", the courage to apprehend everything differently, from a totally new angle, with new confidence and inquisitive touch. This blog is not about interesting concepts, it is about participation... finding new solutions, inspiration, togetherness.

11 Responses to Only when iIlusion is demystified, LOVE can arise.

  1. “And only when Illusion is demystified and seen as illusion, then and only then, LOVE can arise.”
    When we actually LIVE this Truth in our day…that is the Shift!

  2. alootka says:

    Truth is when what you think, you say and you do is the same. If I feel a divergence, it awakes my negative emotions. I didn’t say you are liable over them, I shared that of hope it can awake your personal reflection. Julien, this is my Truth that made me write that despite I knew how you would react. Can’t you see that I provoked you? You say you don’t compare yourself with others – I believe you don’t have such intention, but it feels like that, it feels like you judged others, despised others. You say you don’t want to fight or defend anything – if it is just me, so why you made a public matter of that instead just writing one sentence of explaining directly to me? Reading the answer in that shape I feel assaulted a bit – and this is what it is about. What did I touch if not the ego that you made two posts because of it with many capital letters, in not friendly tone? You know, here people say “If one guy tells you are drunk, you may hit him, if two guys tell you are drunk, consider it, if three guys tell you that, go to the bed”. But of course, if you don’t want a feedback, I am giving up. I just thought you write for others and you want to be understood; I thought you are interested in seeking truth like you claim (what means one standard for others AND yourself), not in being right by all costs. I believe there is no Truth without Love, and there is no Love without Truth, they are Siamese twins. Truth without Love gives birth to fanaticism. I just wanted to direct your attention to the thing that makes your posts less influential than they could be – usually people are not able to see the truth if they feel attacked, even if the attack is only perceived, not meant. Like on this picture 🙂 Love and Light to you.

    PS I am keeping reading your texts (for they are inspiring) like I think all who are aware of their emotions but don’t follow them. However, there are not those who don’t know the Truth. If we want to be heard, we must speak the language of who we speak to.

    • julienmatei says:

      Let´s take it “methodically”:

      You say – If I feel a divergence, it awakes my negative emotions”. Please define what a so-called divergence is for you.
      Diverging entails that there is something ubiquitously valid to diverge from, some kind of overpowering authority to judge what is right or not,
      along with the premise that THERE IS A NON CONTINGENT IMMOVABLE POINT somewhere…

      Does such “right” point exist in reality, or is it maybe your own personal viewpoint?… Or can it be so, this “right point”, this “truth” of yours is strictly determined by your “negative emotions”?

      Just ponder on the words above a little…

      As you might have observed earlier here, I turn certain important comments between me and others, into factual posts.
      What I had to say, I wrote directly to you too before turning it into a post. People could have read those comments anyway.

      You say furthermore: “I feel assaulted”. Who is this offended authority other than your offended ego…? Nobody assaulted you, yet you took it as such…

      I made two posts, in order to make my point so that others could see and comment. You may want to check what comments this post received and see for yourself:

      My intent is not “to be understood”. I am not “seeking” Truth either, as looking for Truth is nothing but hollow projection. TRUTH HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH OUR PROJECTIONS OF IT!

      TRUTH IS NOT A CONCEPT as little as Love is about feelings.

      You go on saying that “usually people are not able to see the truth if they feel attacked, even if the attack is only perceived”…People meaning you, isn´t it so…?…

      It´s only you who see any attack here. Nobody attacked you…It happens only in your imagination only. I don´t know whether you are able to see this or not…

      Finally, “If we want to be heard, we must speak the language of who we speak to” you say.

      That may be true to a certain extent – becuase whatever you say, is going to be misinterpreted by Fear and turned into offense.

      So no, I don´t flirt with anyone´s fear. Others´ fear is not my concern…

      If you still wanna read my posts, you are welcome!

  3. alootka says:

    Of course, Julien, of course. You have a monopoly for Truth and Love, others are too stupid or defected to get it. You teach, sorry, instruct and you don’t need to learn anything. You don’t have emotions, especially fear, only others are full of that nasty things. You know better than me what I feel and I am a mean person that projects her negative emotions onto you (shouldn’t that disqualify me as a psychologist working with people for 20 years?) Did I get it? I am kidding of course 😀
    Julien, I just made you feel like a few others feel reading your posts, hoping that you can learn from that for your own profit, not mine. I am not interested in academic discusions, my English is too poor for that anyway. I have the same right and ability to talk about Truth and Love as you. Apparently we name different things as the Truth and Love; either way I practice them. My life and my happiness is my certificate about them, I don’t need to prove anything. If you want to know what I mean, read my blog.
    Now, I have taken a note that you are not interested in any other feedback than flattery and I promise I will not bother you anymore. If you don’t mind, I would like to finish that talk.
    Sending you Love and Light, Alootka.

    PS Truth doesn’t hurt. I wrote about it in my post “Untruth is not Love”.

  4. goldennuggetde says:

    I’ve been thinking about the whole discussion here for a few days. I’d say You’re all lovely people who’s Ego is sometimes overwhelming you. Just as mine 🙂

    As far as I’m concerned, I’d appreciate Alootka’s comments and statements in future, too. We’re all teachers and pupils simultaneously. And nobody – no matter what or how much education or talents one has – is superior or inferior to another.

    Thanks and somebody or something bless us all.


    • julienmatei says:

      Yes Richard, a very good point. What I want Alotka to know, is that despite the seemingly divergent tone in our discussion, I do appreciate also her statements and comments.

      So it is, and that is what I am trying to state too:

      “Nobody – no matter what or how much education or talents one has – is superior or inferior to another.”



      • goldennuggetde says:

        What an amiable conclusion of Yours! Our appreciation for one another is the reality which lets love shine its brightest colors.



      • julienmatei says:

        Beautifully put Richard.

        “Our appreciation for one another is the reality which lets love shine its brightest colors.”

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