A portrait of woman today

David939 says:
Women are the ones that tend to put so much emphasis on the romantic version of love and yet in my mind really have no idea how to find and keep that kind of love.  When I have “loved” a woman I have done whatever I could to make her feel comfortable, cared for, important and loved.  In return, because of their inability to exercise self-control, inability to be insightful into the way they act…starting expecting more from me than I was willing to give.  In the end I was labelled as lazy and uncaring…and a misogynist.  Today I am happy to be labelled as whatever someone sees fit.  I have found someone who views and respects the action of love as I do and in the process I am free to speak out honestly against anyone that twists their version of love to suit only their own self-gratification.

I do hear your words.

What I can say is that our modern crisis is the direct outcome of women being totally fucked up – that is, more or less estranged from whatever “natural femininity” entails.

There are undoubtedly some very few interesting women on the planet, but all in all,
woman today has become a terrible nuisance. A disaster.

Vanity, vanity, vanity in unthinkable forms, emotional poverty, – that would be rather appropriate to say total absence of emotions, – surface and only surface again in different versions, stupidity and fussiness, and above all a total disinterest for passion, decency, generosity, beauty, poetry or real love. Women seem to live and nourish themselves with their constant revenge on man. Man is to the only one to be blamed and hold responsible for their failing as women…So incredibly redundant…So unspeakably mean and meaningless…

Their only interests is to dominate, control, manipulate and punish man. Punishment is
The Recurrent Theme in everything.

They are so immensely boring, bloated and self-infatuated, humorless, huffy and fatuously predictable…They think they are entitled to get everything, but they give nothing in return…I have really wondered many times, how man puts up with average woman…

The women I cared for and loved, wanted to destroy me. Literally. They couldn´t stand my honest and innocent love. Of course, I admit I fell the victim of my own projection choosing a certain type of women..but still…I came to the conclusion that they cannot stand genuine feeling, purity, dignity, decency and straightforwardness.

They despise all these things, generally preferring all kind of absurd and twisted relations with uncouth men lying to them, demean and make them suffer.  This type of savage man keeps them in “constant surprise.”

A girl I met confessed openly that if I am supposed to reach out to her, I have to literally lie to her. She was not at all interested to hear any truth…She at least admitted that…

Man has his portion of guilt in all this, but again, how can we be different when Real Motherhood has become nothing but a forlorn myth…?

Am I a misogynist speaking so bluntly?…Maybe I am…But that´s what you are called if
you dare call things by their real name…

Most men in different categories of age are aware of this. Nevertheless, I am so utterly amazed that there are so few who have the guts to express the truth about this.

Just to mention that I was fortunate to find a fairly loving, open, sincere, natural and stable girl by my side.
One in a million…

Great to read your comment. Hope we can continue the dialogue.

About julienmatei
I feel an inner urge to express what I see, to communicate and share with others all these impressions. Often the things I see are there, not yet manifest, but waiting... to be observed, talked about, and embraced. These new insights need another approach, a more vivid curiosity... Due to fear and prejudice we prefer to see only "the official" truth - but THE OFFICIAL TRUTH IS DEAD - being dead, it has nothing to give... We can continue pretending Death is fascinating or... we can take the trouble to LIVE... THE NEW has no definition yet... Again, IT requires another "perception", the courage to apprehend everything differently, from a totally new angle, with new confidence and inquisitive touch. This blog is not about interesting concepts, it is about participation... finding new solutions, inspiration, togetherness.

4 Responses to A portrait of woman today

  1. hakesplace says:

    Excuse me…not all women place emphasis on “romance”–it all depends on your circle of friends and acquaintances. Just saying… 😀

  2. Julien, there are other ways of looking at this.

    First, is there something you are doing that attracts the wrong kind of woman? I can assure you, not all women are like that. I would say, not even a majority.

    Second, what do we as men need to do to attract the right kind of woman and keep her attracted?

    I think there are generalisations one can validly make about men and women, based on behaviours that are ingrained in us from our evolutionary past. This is less talked about today because of fear of not being politically correct, but nevertheless there are some differences which are the more powerful because we are less aware of them.

    A woman has two basic requirements for a mate, which I explain in more detail in my book, ‘Dating-the missing manual.’ One is for an alpha male, someone strong and resourceful who will give her strong babies. Such men tend to be a bit wild. The other is for a man who will protect her and her babies and be consistent and faithful.

    (If you saw the original version of ‘Alfie’ with Michael Caine, you will remember that the woman has a baby by Alfie, the wild lad, but marries the stable and steady bus conductor.)

    To succeed as men we need to be able to manifest both qualities – excitement and reliability.

  3. If I may, more about my book for men with a romantic soul who are having trouble with dating is here:

  4. onestreetshy says:

    And what would a portrait of a man look like these days? Is not all of what you write completely relative to each human on earth? Including what ones idea of love, romance or even expression is. At the risk of sounding “huffy”, it does appear we have been pigeonholed

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