Give happiness to the ones really wanting to be happy

For many years I gave away my energy, spreading around my joy and goodwill till I finally found myself completely drained. Obviously, I was trapped in the false belief that I could make other people happy.

Pure illusion!

I wanted to make unhappy people happy, but guess what, they were not
interested to be “happy”…


They kind of secretly like being in constant contention, “to be happy” means struggle, disharmony and punishment…– it´s utterly twisted and strange, that´s why it has taken me years to finally sort this out.

So, to make it short, give your happiness and joy to yourself first, and then the ones who desire to embrace happiness, will just be attracted to you….and you to them.

About julienmatei
I feel an inner urge to express what I see, to communicate and share with others all these impressions. Often the things I see are there, not yet manifest, but waiting... to be observed, talked about, and embraced. These new insights need another approach, a more vivid curiosity... Due to fear and prejudice we prefer to see only "the official" truth - but THE OFFICIAL TRUTH IS DEAD - being dead, it has nothing to give... We can continue pretending Death is fascinating or... we can take the trouble to LIVE... THE NEW has no definition yet... Again, IT requires another "perception", the courage to apprehend everything differently, from a totally new angle, with new confidence and inquisitive touch. This blog is not about interesting concepts, it is about participation... finding new solutions, inspiration, togetherness.

3 Responses to Give happiness to the ones really wanting to be happy

  1. So true, we spend a lot of time trying to make people happy who are content with life as it is and usually find that we have become unhappy in the process. We can’t make people happy but maybe our happiness will spark a fire in them to desire it too.

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