The search and craving for Love

She:
“There is a difference between the things which I know, like learning to rely on myself for everything and things which I hope, like having someone to rely on. I understand the “search”, the continuous wish for that special someone who makes you feel special in turn. I feel this need deep in my bones.”

Me:
Conditioning lies deep within our bones, especially when it comes to the need of being loved…

First of all – is the need to be loved, Love?…

Let´s be honest: how many times when we badly needed and craved to be loved, someone came along who really loved us…? Assuredly, the more we needed, the more we attracted partners who deceived and disappointed us…

Most evidently, we have been brought up for centuries in these terrible illusions as to who is supposed to give what, and who to receive…We are stuck in these rigid roles, projections and false expectations, having  been socialized to think therefore that someone else can, or is supposed to make us feel this or that.

Bad news:

NO ONE CAN MAKE YOU FEEL SPECIAL! and that, because you are already “special”. You just don´t know this, since you are used living only in the range of your illusory ego.

First when you are in contact with your loving Self, someone comes along who gives you back what you give yourself, that is, you and that person, will mirror each other´s special-ness without any effort to do so…

So in this sense Love is inside of you,  – in the full realization that the loving masculine or feminine aspect shining in you beyond fear, separation, or thought.

The more this insight becomes clear within you, the more likely is that she or he – as a manifest person – will come your way.

About julienmatei
I feel an inner urge to express what I see, to communicate and share with others all these impressions. Often the things I see are there, not yet manifest, but waiting... to be observed, talked about, and embraced. These new insights need another approach, a more vivid curiosity... Due to fear and prejudice we prefer to see only "the official" truth - but THE OFFICIAL TRUTH IS DEAD - being dead, it has nothing to give... We can continue pretending Death is fascinating or... we can take the trouble to LIVE... THE NEW has no definition yet... Again, IT requires another "perception", the courage to apprehend everything differently, from a totally new angle, with new confidence and inquisitive touch. This blog is not about interesting concepts, it is about participation... finding new solutions, inspiration, togetherness.

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