Man´s most paradoxical feature
“The ego wants to suffer. Don´t ask me why“, said a friend of mine.
Weirdly enough, many see Life as nothing but suffering, so they can hardly
fathom anything which goes beyond this idea. Something which doesn´t
make them suffer is taken for some kind of twisted abstraction.
Most people find peace and joy unbearable. They can´t see, or handle Love.
They simply don´t know what to do with it.
Suffering is their main motivation. The raison d´etre. The Incessant Drama makes
them thrive.
Indeed, Who would they be if they stopped suffering?
Suffering and making others suffer is our day-to-day pursuit. Our behavioural vocabulary.
Such an uncanny mechanism – they all claim to want alleviation, but take away their
suffering, and they might kill you for having taken away their very reason to live.
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Due to fear and prejudice we prefer to see only "the official" truth - but THE OFFICIAL TRUTH IS DEAD - being dead, it has nothing to give...
We can continue pretending Death is fascinating or... we can take the trouble to LIVE...
THE NEW has no definition yet...
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So true! And we put ourselves at great risk by not recognizing this.
It’s also a recurrent source of distrust in our own instincts. When those around us act in this way, we can take it as our own failure.
“How could they be acting in such an obviously self-destructive manner?” We ask. Unless we understand this source of motivation we are lost.
You see Antonio,
Indeed, years on end I took it as my own failure. First now I can see this with clarity and, I must admit that this insight is frighteningly true.
Suffering which goes hand in hand with victimizing yourself and others…
This could be what distinguishes “suffering” from the precarity of any life and its inevitable end. Eliminating suffering has nothing to do with achieving some perfection outside of life. It has to do with letting go of this intoxication with misery.
Compassion guides us there. This is why we need to begin by shining compassion on our own being. It’s only then that we can let this go. And only then that we can set aside suffering so we can act.
Beautiful. This is so insightful and well-formulated. I relate and totally agree with you:
Compassion guides us there. This is why we need to begin by shining compassion on our own being. It’s only then that we can let this go. And only then that we can set aside suffering so we can act.