Beyond tolerance or acceptance

She:
I’m beginning to think there is no real thing as love and acceptance maybe just tolerance. And trusting anyone with real feelings is just asking for heartache. No one has the time nor is anyone inclined to understand anyone else, not really.

Me:
What we call “tolerance” is usually another form of intolerance…”I am beginning to think” breeds consequently intolerance, with other words, resistance as an answer to lovelessness.

I have said this million times before, but that seems our hardest setback – THINKING…

Where thought – that is identification – is present, Love is absent.

How can we be inclined to understand anyone else when we live in falseness…? When we, indeed, do anything in our might to defend our right to be wrong, to be biased…when the only “love” we know is fearing, controlling and thus taking revenge on the other…

No…we don´t have the time to love…because that would entail that we question our identification with Thought…- with WHO WE THINK WE ARE…

Only thought accepts or doesn´t accept.

Love is beyond tolerance or acceptance.

LOVE SIMPLY EMBRACES ALL.

About julienmatei
I feel an inner urge to express what I see, to communicate and share with others all these impressions. Often the things I see are there, not yet manifest, but waiting... to be observed, talked about, and embraced. These new insights need another approach, a more vivid curiosity... Due to fear and prejudice we prefer to see only "the official" truth - but THE OFFICIAL TRUTH IS DEAD - being dead, it has nothing to give... We can continue pretending Death is fascinating or... we can take the trouble to LIVE... THE NEW has no definition yet... Again, IT requires another "perception", the courage to apprehend everything differently, from a totally new angle, with new confidence and inquisitive touch. This blog is not about interesting concepts, it is about participation... finding new solutions, inspiration, togetherness.

2 Responses to Beyond tolerance or acceptance

  1. The translation reveals the subconscious, every time, again and again. I want to share this tool with you. Just replace the projection with ownership, the other people are me. Like this…

    “I’m beginning to think there is no real thing as love and acceptance maybe just tolerance. And trusting myself with real feelings is just asking for heartache. I don’t have the time nor am I inclined to understand myself, not really.”

    See? Hidden truth revealed. I am revealing that I don’t have time to understand myself, nor do I want to. How can I have meaningful relationships with others if I don’t even want to understand myself? I can’t. The translation tool allows me to see hidden parts of myself that cause separation and harm. Does this tool work for you, too?

    • julienmatei says:

      It does…- most definitely so…

      Most of the things we say about others, are the things we obfuscate and have a hard time admitting in ourselves…Isn´t it so? – We blame others for our unwillingness to look at ourselves…

      Human nature in a nutshell: “I am neither interested to consider, or genuinely inclined to examine myself…”- although we so skillfully claim the opposite…Really…we play
      hide-and-seek with ourselves. With life…

      We secretly want to be in power, that is, to remain separated…Only so I can blame you for my self-harm…Only so I am entitled to attack you.

      We love to remain the victims of our own refusal to see…- because, only by playing unconscious, I can make you responsible for my pain…

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