Loneliness – the biggest human dilemma

Paul:
There is a constant sensation of something missing within me. I’m so tired of being alone, so tired of being on my own.

Me:
Do I know this from own experience?…

I have been pondering this subject my whole life. This is after all, an insoluble matter, but here is what I have found out through own intense examination.

Even if it seems differently, it´s not loneliness which is the issue here. What you´re actually tired of is thwarting yourself, vainly resisting to delve into your loneliness. That is, YOU´RE RESISTING TO KNOW YOURSELF in that aloneness; “there is a sensation of something missing”, is You missing a deeper and wholesome connection with yourself. The True You…

You can´t heal the deep-seated inner disconnection through any action.

Trying to forget and rid yourself of loneliness through any practical undertaking, is as futile as trying to do away with your shadow…

Really, it is maybe discouraging to realize, but there is No one on this planet who can return you to yourself, unless you do it. That is, getting to explore and unravel the secret of your loneliness…

As far as women are concerned, you will see that the more you “catch up with yourself” – that is with that unknown lonely you – the less effort you will need to kind of put yourself on the market. 🙂 Instead, they will instantly feel your being anchored inwardly, and suddenly they will be attracted…

The only true satisfaction derives from self-knowledge. From taking the trouble of observing and investigating oneself in loneliness…that´s true strength…So when you exude that rare satisfaction of delivering your true Self to you, you will witness how things will begin to move by themselves around you.

So be it!

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About julienmatei
I feel an inner urge to express what I see, to communicate and share with others all these impressions. Often the things I see are there, not yet manifest, but waiting... to be observed, talked about, and embraced. These new insights need another approach, a more vivid curiosity... Due to fear and prejudice we prefer to see only "the official" truth - but THE OFFICIAL TRUTH IS DEAD - being dead, it has nothing to give... We can continue pretending Death is fascinating or... we can take the trouble to LIVE... THE NEW has no definition yet... Again, IT requires another "perception", the courage to apprehend everything differently, from a totally new angle, with new confidence and inquisitive touch. This blog is not about interesting concepts, it is about participation... finding new solutions, inspiration, togetherness.

5 Responses to Loneliness – the biggest human dilemma

  1. Wise words from a wise soul!

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