Resisting simply worsens it

There comes a moment when you realize that “other” than what is happening, is simply a meaningless subterfuge. Things may be hard and painful, but let them be that way. In that thorough acceptance, lies the secret way out of the dismal predicament.

There is nothing to wait

Everything comes to you the moment you accept It within you.

Whatever you begin to see and recognize inside, is being immediately
played out and reflected around you. 🙂

There is no “other” – Self is “Itself” in whatever it sees. 

Acceptance is self-approval

The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change.
– Carl Rogers

The reason acceptance isn’t more popular is that in acceptance, there is nothing to do. In acceptance, there is nothing ‘wrong’ that needs to be changed, fixed, worked on or otherwise improved. And the simple, astounding, mind-bogglingly amazing fact is that as soon as you accept yourself exactly as you are, all of those ‘character flaws’ begin to fall away because those ‘flaws’ exist only in non-acceptance, in self-hate.

– Cheri Huber

In the midst of hardship, rejoice nevertheless

I am not exaggerating in the least:

If you are depressed, be depressed. If you are unhappy, be unhappy.
If nothing works, and losing seems to be your only share, rejoice nevertheless.

A hard one, I know, I´ve been there. It has taken me years to understand this.

Don´t try to be something when you are not. You may fool yourself or others,
but never Life.

Being utterly unhappy, and constantly manifesting mishap after mishap is
very challenging. It feels like a terribly relentless fate – which can be a fact – but
while being miserable, the more 
you try to act in order to improve the current
situation, the more jinx and entanglement 
you attract.

It does require incredible insight and wisdom, but you simply must learn to
celebrate and be happy in the midst of unhappiness.

That´s the only way to bring about change:


Rest deeply in the truth of who you really are

Jeff Foster

Another letter to my unknown friend

I will say it again:


It is essential to stay with what is, the way it is. You can´t expect someone with high fever to deliver any intelligent answers or responses. Just stay…and listen inwardly…

In the midst of hardships, when you no longer have expectations, embracing what is, at some point you may hear that little sweet voice of the soul whispering “All is well”. Trust that!!
Healing happens inconspicuously when you let it happen almost with no interference from your side. You cannot find the right solution from your present perception.

Trusting the process, one day, without you realizing how it happened, you will see the whole situation from another perspective.

You see, I can understand that you are easily dismissive.
When it comes to inner healing, there are no standard methods to follow. Healing is each and everyone´s secret at the end of the day.
But help may come, usually from least expected persons or places. Ask your soul to recognize and acknowledge that help. Real help must feel like the clear water you receive when you are thirsty.

I wouldn´t dream of offering you “opinions” – to have an opinion is ultimately to judge. I feel no urge anymore to judge myself or – for that matter – anyone coming my way.

If you are not used to this kind of approach what I say now may seem rather strange: Just remember – the Separated Ego is and remains contradictory. This ego loves status quo, it never wants to change; by definition it loves turmoil, conflict, disease and suffering.

The voice of the soul has the power of “outwitting” this shallow entity called ego. When you stay with what is, in that silence, the soul can do its work, undisturbed by your will. It is an enduring process – have patience, a big journey starts with small steps.

Between the lines I hear your great potential – you are a gifted person. Going along with this process, learning to recognize your inner voice, may show you in due time, that you may have unimagined talents.