Quite an insight

If to become “myself” presupposes further separation from “you”,
then I refuse to be “me”…

Selfishness is blind, as it can not see the other

If we are individually selfish we´re going to be collectively selfish – that is, blind to each other.

This very sightlessness is what we label as “relation”. After all, relation is nothing but negotiation. “I love you very much” means actually “I negotiate with you very much so that you please my ego.”