You and me and The Vivid Word

Can we deliberately put behind idle talking and verbal “intelligent” inertia that bring no benefit, and instead begin communicating honestly and pragmatically and in this way bring about A Real Change?

A dream comes true

Indeed, in this very second I feel such an incredible far-reaching joy and gratitude. What I long wished for, and didn´t happen, now it happens. Yes, I see a dream coming true:

My eager wish to communicate and share, my desire to initiate a place where we can dare have a real debate about uncomfortable topics,
questioning things that are consciously overlooked, well…now this is happening under my eyes on Mirrors of Encounters.

It is a hard journey. Many times during the day I feel hopelessly lonely and lost, dealing with insights that almost nobody is interested to hear, accept or take up. I meant many times to give up writing here. But sometimes it´s good not to give in.

Now at last…! comments are made, when we dare exchange and share our experiences, it feels actually that we create a breath of fresh air.

As realmanure. says:  “I do not see a cure in sight for the world’s malaise. But we must live somewhere in the middle of optimism and pessimism.” Indeed, this timid voice of hope and – why not – new lucid optimism, makes itself felt. I for one, begin to breath as if a burden is being taken away from my chest. This communication is like fresh oxygen to me.

I feel it, it gives a precious feeling of promising joy and new meaning. It is still hard – working with oneself is the hardest job you can do – but now, when this wheel of communication has slowly started to spin, I can say this energy is unbelievable. IT IS REAL, this presence created out of honest communication is undaunted and  powerful.  It goes beyond this very context, into something far more comprising than we are aware.

I guess if I feel this blessed energy of real hope, it is for sure going to reach out to many others who sincerely are on the same track of Self-recover and Self-retrieving – the most mighty of all journeys.

What is reality?

Reality becomes most real when we dream – being awake.

Can we recognize what we ask for?

Where does the answer come from? For sure, not from the expected sources, of course, if you are willing to admit this.

Searching for that wished for reality, distances us even more from what we want. We cannot find the well needed answer, in the same frame of mind and perspective from which the yearning arose. The answer, or solution, comes swiftly in most unexpected ways, when you are ready to receive it.

We have to learn to rely on the Unknown. The unknown is not a mere abstraction, it is the most sustainable reality, reality that our limited conditioning cannot grasp. Being caught in our conditioning, we won´t recognize the answer, even if it´s in front of us. The paradox is that the conditioning can speak in lofty terms about everything: love, freedom, different approaches to success, but invariably it creates only even more illusion, loneliness, procrastination, pain, all in all, castles in the air.

You just need to recognize conditioning as such, and remain in a state of actively passive observing. Staying and observing our conditioning, without trying escaping from it, creates a new type of perception:


Lucidity is another word for discovering the “Unknown”. In other words, being lucidly aware, you are prepared to fathom things differently, that is – from another angle and level of reality. Right perception,
or if you want – lucid perception – is the key to naturally solving “the problem”.

Linger with your wish, and see what the yearning is about. Ultimately, you are looking for yourself. When you are in touch with yourself, your most genuine feeling will attract whatever you wish for.

This is law.