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2016/03/01 5 Comments
To find therefore what real Relation is about requires immense courage:
Namely to interrupt all discursive thought. To break away from all known structure.
It’s about retrieving your child mind.
Undo it all!
Relation is a state of non-cognition.
2015/07/12 Leave a comment
This is quite a striking insight which gradually dawns upon me.
That´s why there are almost no genuine relations left,
as most humans refuse to look inside themselves…
Indeed, how can they be in communion with the other,
when they refuse to have a true relation to themselves?…
2015/06/06 Leave a comment
Nobody tells you what is acceptable and what is not. We often stick with the unacceptable, manipulating and allowing ourselves to be manipulated, because we have no clue as to what means to be unconditionally seen and loved.
The fact is that we are afriad to be lonely. But if we are afriad to be lonely later on, it means of course that we are lonely now. That our precious longing is not presently met by the other.
Really: I don´t know if it´s worse to be lonely with someone, or be lonely being by yourself.
Surely the first…
2013/11/24 7 Comments
Your words brought to mind a statement by one of my favorite mentor:
For him to have understood me would have meant reorganizing his
thinking… giving up his intellectual ballast, and few people are willing
to risk such a radical move.
– Edward T. Hall
How few people grasp the difference between ‘description’ and ‘explanation’.
Eventually, the function of the intellect is to “protect” us from truly living.
When the intellect ceases, love arises…- love being the totality of life.
And where there is totality, true understanding of “the other” occurs
So that´s why most people are unwilling to risk such a radical move
as to giving up their intellectual ballast:
They are inconceivably afraid of Love, afraid of what true and direct
2013/10/22 Leave a comment