Real men are looked for

Who is there to teach boys how to be a man? Cause there are no real men left.  Thus, feminism is a cry for the real man – no woman would ever admit that though. The tricky thing is that, on one hand, women are yearning for passion and romance, and at the same time don´t allow that to happen, cause they feel insecure (in absence of a real man) .
That´s why we have all kinds of soap-operas, bull-shit films and pornography, as compensations for things we no longer live in our day-to-day life.